I commonly provide individual therapy for adults and adolescents. When
working with school age children, I am more likely to take a family
therapy/parent counseling approach.
People enter psychotherapy for an enormously wide range of
reasons. Therefore my approach must be optimal for that particular
person. A carpenter who only knows how to use a hammer would not be
much help. My approach to treatment reflects an integration of several
major psychological perspectives.
The psychodynamic approach helps me to understand the influence of
early relationships, formative life experiences or traumatic events.
Our past is part of who we are. The relationship experiences of
childhood and adolescence influence how we relate to people later in
life. At times past relationship patterns emerge within the therapeutic
rapport, allowing a valuable opportunity to explore and understand how
early life influences the present. At any given point our personality
and life view reflects some combination of our past and present
experiences. I seek to help my clients understand the blend.
The broad realm of cognitive behavioral therapy sets out a way for
looking more specifically at patterns and habits of thought. In
relatively automatic ways, people tend to think in negative or
irrational ways and then operate and feel as if those thoughts are
factual. Many people develop very negative or self defeating ways of
thinking about themselves and the events in their lives. I strive to
help my clients to understand and change this maladaptive thinking and
develop a more positive and adaptive perspective.
Family systems psychology helps to highlight how engrained patterns
within the family or relationship tend to provide barriers or benefits
to forming intimate and gratifying relationships.
There are so many ways to understand and address psychological
problems. All rely on the client to be open and honest. This is not
always easy. Throughout therapy I try to be aware of my role in helping
people to speak freely. However complex the human mind can be, in the
end, effective psychotherapy comes down to the healing power of two
people talking together about what it is like to live in this confusing
and at times troubled world.